“So, what’s new?”
I used to hate hearing that from friends. Well, it was one friend — more like ex-boyfriend — who would started conversations with that question.
What’s new with what? Can’t you be more specific?
Then there came a time when I hated the question simply because I didn’t have anything new to talk about. I was in the same city, same apartment, same graduate program, same part-time job, same relationship status, etc.
That’s changed recently. I left my graduate program*. I got a new job. My living situation will change. I’m getting married. There’s plenty of new in my life.
About the new job, it’s more new-ish than actually new. Since 2006 I’ve worked in a department that runs various undergraduate research programs for science students. In my half-time position, referred to previously as Job1, I was a coordinator for an academic support program for freshmen and sophomores. I loved working with [Program], but knew I couldn’t stay on if/when I left graduate school as the position is intended for a graduate student.
Leaving grad school became a lot easier when I was offered a full-time position in the same department/office. It was an easy to say yes to the job. Rather than go to a new company, university or even department I’m still in the same office just at a different desk. I’ll tangentially work with [Program], but the bulk of my job is managing research programs for upperclassmen. Even though I’ve been in this office for a while, I feel like the new kid as I attend various trainings and rely on co-workers to figure things out. At least it helps that I worked closely with the previous two people who held this position.
I’m grateful the timing worked out and that my boss thought I’d be a good fit for the position. I know the job market sucks right now; I’m lucky to have easily found something in my field and in a great work environment.
*Many thanks for the thoughtful and supportive comments on the graduate school post. It was a tough decision, but the support of friends, family and my Job1 supervisor made it much easier.
Totally hate that question, too. For a long time when I didn’t nail a job, I frankly avoided people just because of questions like that because it just depressed me. =/ Glad that things seem to have aligned well for you, even if they weren’t quite what you imagined.
Congrats! That sounds pretty great.
Interesting…then why quit grad school at all? Was it just the money?
Either way, wish you the best! Change is certainly very risky in this economy. It’s great you were able to move into a full job immediately.